Realationship's Advice

Hello, people of Potter's Army

As many of you know alot of people come through serious and hurtful situation during their time with a partner. And for me i also seek these advice to help me through any difficult situation with my real life realationships
There are many reason to break up, but some more common than others. If any of these things happen, it is time to move on and find another love.


It's time to break up if you have...

1. An abusive relationship. If you are in an abusive relationship, get out now! It doesn't matter if you 'think' you are still in love with him (or her) or 'know' you are in love with her. Get out now, and after, file a police report for a restraining order.
   
2. No trust. Trust is the most important part in any relationship, so if you don't have it, it's time to break up.
   
3. Found someone else. Although not always on purpose, sometimes we find another person -- perhaps a friend or colleague who we are interested in. If this is you, talk about it. Usually, interest in someone else means you aren't getting everything you want out of your current relationship. If talking about it doesn't help, it's time to break up and start something new.
   
4. Loss of interest. Many couples lose interest in their partner, not only sexually, but also as a friend. If you cannot talk to your significant other, it is definitely time to break up.
   
5. No future together. Relationships without a future is a train-wreck waiting to happen. If you want to be friends with benefits, fine. Be friends with benefits. However, if you want a real relationship but don't have a future together, get out now.
   
6. Or even finding out that they have cheated on you
   

Of course there are more reasons than just these to break up, but if one of these are a problem -- talk about it if it's not serious, but if it is, get out now. Too many teens, and even adults, stay in relationships for the wrong reason. Sometimes it's just not to be and we need to realize what is best for us, and sometimes that is being alone... at least for now.

What to do if you have a cheating girlfriend or cheating boyfriend, or advice if you're the one doing the cheating...

Cheating (also called gulling) is an act of lying, deception, fraud, trickery, imposture, or imposition. Cheating characteristically is employed to create an unfair advantage, usually in one's own interest, and often at the expense of others

Of course there are many reason for people who are in a realationship with someone to cheat on them... One of the many scenario that i am in right now is probably having a friendship who has a big crush on my partner and are jealous of you

• Another reason is falling in love with another person. But why fall in love with another person while you are in a realationship already you may ask
  

Well one of the reason could be that they are not getting what they want in this current realationship. Or even as i said before up the stop of the beginning of the topic(Cheating) would be getting back at their partner for whatever thing they did to them

Many more later....

So you are internet dating. There is absolutely nothing wrong with Internet dating, but when it comes to realationships with real people it can be awfully hurtful even though it doesn't involve real kissing or any sexual things

And if you are in one of this scenario below

• Trying to break up with your internet date, so you can make up with your real partner
  
  
• You find out your partner is cheating on you by internet
  
  

Then here the procedure to how to fix any scenario.

1. Tell your partner it bothers you, in a nice and gentle voice. If that doesn't work then try yelling at them in a forceful manner. But never blame them for anything
   
2. If your the one trying to break up with your internet partner without trying to hurt their feeling then you sir/ma'am are in a difficult situation as i am. The best option is to try and explain them your feeling carefully and don't blame them for any reason
   

Note:- as an adviser i feel it is time for me to admit something to my internet partner. which will be given to her on PM. And i'm in situation NO.2
It is a very hard and exhausting situation. Many partner may trust their partner fully that they will not cheat,

Are you tired of telling your friend to back-off?!?

Why do friends be jealous of their friends partner:-

• There are many reason for your friend to be jealous with your partner and that a natural thing that can happen to realationship. One of the reason are that their partner haved kissed them and allows them to sit so close to each other.
  

I don't know much about friendship and realationship together so anyone who can help PM me the detail

Girls - In my opinion most girls would cheat on their boyfriends as an act of getting their attention and to make them Jealous, now that is a very dangerous way of thinking and will cause their realationship to be emotionally destroyed

But that doesn't really help the realationship does it? Also they also may do it as another act of revenge which is also dangerous

Boys - Why do boys cheat? many girls i've talked to me have asked me. Well the reason a boy may cheat on their girlfriend would be because their girlfriend ain't giving them what they want or they are not caring enough of their lovers, and maybe another act of expreriancing sexual intercourse with another girl

• Advice: My advice if you see your partner cheat on you either behind your back or straight infront of you. The best thing to do is ignore them for a whole full day and wait for them to ask you what the problem is and then tell them the problem and ask them to put themselve in your shoes and how would they feel if they found out when they have kissed another partner
  

More later

I feel that way and it been a month since he hasn't been on.

Hey, can I add onto your Girls Cheating thing Andrian? 'Cause I think that's only one scenario. I think that not all girls are attention seekers. Often they don't tell guys if they're cheating, which means it might not be attention seeking. They could just have fallen in love with two guys.
This can also happen with boys.
Also, are you going to post things about asking people out/turning people down, etc.?

Oh this isn't Andrian's opinions i think. (Sorry if it is) He's been on heaps of dating help websites recently, i'd say he's taken this off them. ((Rofl, sorry again mate if im wrong.))

Nope i got advice for many people on my MSN message each day and use it as my advice in my own words

Jemma Tiquelle wrote:
Also, are you going to post things about asking people out/turning people down, etc.?

if you really need this jemz, i could tell you some over msn off the top of my head.

I'll try putting rejection down

Ginevra Malenki wrote:

Jemma Tiquelle wrote:
Also, are you going to post things about asking people out/turning people down, etc.?

if you really need this jemz, i could tell you some over msn off the top of my head.

Ahh, no, you see, I do the clever thing. I give everyone else advice then can't use it myself. Lol xD.
I don't have...problems...I just think too far in the future. Like I like a guy, I deny it, everyone thinks he likes me (they practically ship us) and I just...I don't want us to go out, break up and hate each other. 'Cause we get on so well as friends.
And tbh I'll post that here 'cause it isn't that personal. I can handle my main relationship problems, not necessarily WELL, but I can handle them. Lol xD.