She stared at the boy across from her.
There were parts of him she understood. Now that she had penetrated some of his walls, there was a palpable loneliness that she could feel from him, a defensiveness that more than explained his inability to just take the rage of the people he had hurt. He had no one to model his behavior off of. When her mother had stopped showing up as a parent, Lily had at least had three (albeit imperfect) brothers that she could look to as some model of what was right.
But it didn't excuse anything either.
She glanced towards the door and sighed, before crossing her arms. "I'm in the hospital wing at least five days a month," she started slowly, trying to figure out just how much she wanted to say. "That's on a good month. There are days I should go, and I don't. And when I do, I dread anyone coming in. I don't want to explain, I don't want to pretend to have the energy to keep up small talk but mostly... I don't want people to know how bad it is."
She paused. "Getting better is, frankly, an embarrassing process. There's shame and weakness and vulnerability. But I have to hope it's worth it. Even so, I know from experience, sometimes you want someone to go in with you, other times you just want to close your eyes and shut everyone out."
She's gotten a little far from the point so she sighed. "Anyway, that's all to say, you're not the only one with some issues. And that I wouldn't have offered to join you if I didn't intend to follow through either way. I just wanted to give you the option."